The Addamses aren't mean; they are incredibly polite, wealthy, and hospitable. The "horror" comes from the townspeople's inability to handle their eccentricities.
"The Addams Family Goes to School" reminds us that "normal" is entirely subjective. While the neighbors see a house of horrors, the Addams family sees a home filled with love, explosives, and the occasional pet lion. [S1E1] The Addams Family Goes to School
This remains one of the funniest bits in TV history. It perfectly encapsulates the Addams philosophy: why root for the hero when the monster is more interesting? Key Takeaway The Addamses aren't mean; they are incredibly polite,