Raising A Secure Child: How Circle Of Security ... -

Children are naturally curious. When they feel secure, they want to head out into the world to play, learn, and grow. At this stage, your job is to: Let them know you're there.

Eventually, the world gets a little too big, or they get tired, scared, or frustrated. That’s when they head back to the "bottom" of the circle. Your job here is to: Be their safe space. Comfort them: Help them organize their "big feelings." Raising a Secure Child: How Circle of Security ...

Offer just enough support so they can succeed on their own. 2. The "Bottom" of the Circle: Welcome Their Return Children are naturally curious

Show them you're proud of their discoveries. Eventually, the world gets a little too big,

The goal of Circle of Security isn't to prevent your child from feeling upset. It’s about being —being bigger, stronger, wiser, and kind. Whenever possible, follow your child’s lead; whenever necessary, take charge. The Takeaway: It’s About Connection, Not Perfection

Remind them they are loved just for being who they are. 3. Being "Hands-On"