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If a vocal safeword isn't possible, use a physical one, like dropping a handheld object or double-tapping the partner's shoulder. 5. Cleaning and Comfort use a physical one
Don't wait until you feel friction or discomfort. Stop and add more. 2. Deep Relaxation & Warm-up