Start with a slow, steady rhythm. The active partner should use their hips for movement rather than just pushing with their hands to maintain better control.

Ask how they are feeling physically and emotionally.

Use plenty of saliva or a water-based lubricant to prevent friction burn on the throat or sensitive skin.

Intense or dominant play often requires "aftercare" to help both partners transition back to a neutral state.

Ensure the receiving partner can breathe through their nose. Never block the nose or throat in a way that completely restricts airflow unless previously discussed and monitored very closely.