The phrasing likely refers to Flemish crooner and his realization that his past relationship struggles were largely influenced by his autism (ASS) and ADD .

: While public reports in 2022 often referred to his partner Marieke van Hooff , a 2026 documentary revealed they had actually been married since May 19, 2022 , in a private ceremony in Durbuy.

: Following these personal insights, he saw a major career resurgence, particularly with his "Hellmut Lotti Goes Metal" project, which allowed him to lean into a more authentic, high-energy persona.

: Lotti has stated that his late-in-life diagnosis of autism and ADD explained his behavioral patterns in past relationships, which he previously didn't understand.

: Lotti moved to the Ardennes in 2017 to find peace, a move that initially contributed to the end of his third marriage but eventually led to a more stable lifestyle with his current wife.